Where relationship-driven sales meet authentic leadership.
Join host Harry Spaight, author of Selling With Dignity, for powerful conversations with sales leaders, CEOs, and experts on ethical selling, building high-performing teams, fostering trust, and scaling success without compromise. Get actionable insights and inspiration to elevate your sales game and lead with dignity—whether you’re closing deals or coaching teams to greatness.
About the Host
With over 20 years leading sales teams and a passion for people-first approaches, Harry now works as a Sales Leadership Coach and Certified SalesIndex Partner, helping CEOs and sales leaders gain clear visibility into team strengths, unlock hidden potential, and drive sustainable growth through a blend of relational principles and data-informed insights. Connect with Harry on LinkedIn.
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Show Description:
Host Harry Spaight welcomes mindfulness speaker, retreat facilitator, and nervous system expert Ramona Crabtree Faulkner (Authentic Life Journey) for a transformative conversation on how mindset and intentional energy can revolutionize sales.
Explore why your energy precedes your words—people feel your frequency the moment you enter the room. Learn to shift from hustle, fear, and toxic positivity to authentic abundance, resilience, and magnetic presence. Harry shares his real-world success applying Bob Proctor’s law of attraction principles in competitive copier sales, while Ramona offers practical tools like pre-meeting visualization, body-based decision-making, and trusting cyclical growth over instant results.
Perfect for salespeople, entrepreneurs, and leaders who want to sell with more ease, attract aligned clients, and build long-term relationships without burnout.
Key takeaways:
- Create a “hospitable energy container” before every sales interaction
- Resilience > perfection: every “no” or setback clears space for the right “yes”
- Listen to your nervous system’s signals when qualifying prospects
- Consistent practice (90+ days) rewires mindset and energy for lasting change
- Authenticity and vulnerability open doors in sales and speaking
Timeline:
- [00:01:00] – Introducing Ramona Crabtree Faulkner & her work with nervous system regulation for professionals
- [00:02:00] – Why energy & mindset are essential in sales—people are drawn to (or repelled by) your vibe
- [00:03:00] – Holding a intentional “container” of energy & changing the atmosphere of any room
- [00:04:30] – Mindset creates energy: hustle/fear vs. empowerment/abundance
- [00:07:00] – “Light up the room” – science behind positivity, smiles, eye contact & good vibes in sales
- [00:08:00] – Toxic positivity vs. real, cellular-level change through consistent repetition
- [00:09:30] – 90 days of practice to make mindset & behavior shifts natural
- [00:10:30] – Nature’s timeline: planting seeds, growth, harvest, rest
- [00:12:30] – Growth is cyclical & spiraling—resiliency over perfection
- [00:14:30] – Reframing “failures”: what didn’t work clears space for what will
- [00:16:00] – Body wisdom: tension = “no,” expansion = “yes” when qualifying clients
- [00:17:30] – Walking away from misaligned prospects—freedom in saying no
- [00:19:00] – Detaching self-worth from quotas & outcomes; accepting results with peace
- [00:20:30] – Harry’s 2007 story: Bob Proctor, visualization signs, & massive sales turnaround
- [00:23:00] – Intention + aligned action beats “woo”—vision boards, meditation, breathwork
- [00:25:30] – Ruthless focus: cutting distractions to stay true to your vision
- [00:27:00] – Trusting timing—Ramona’s 2022 vision realized in 2026; Harry’s personal resonance
- [00:29:30] – Long roads build wisdom—Gary V reminder: don’t complain if it’s been under 5 years
- [00:31:00] – Authenticity & vulnerability as superpowers in sales & speaking
- [00:33:00] – Ramona’s pivot: from 25 years in massage/yoga to corporate speaking & keynotes
- [00:35:30] – The powerful 1 Million Cups moment on her son’s birthday—signs & momentum
- [00:38:00] – Living purpose: when things unfold beyond your design
- [00:39:30] – Reclaim brunch success: manifesting 55 women & building her keynote
- [00:41:00] – Sales = emotional intelligence, connection & service—energy is transferable
- [00:43:00] – Closing exercise recap: pre-meeting 30–60 second energy alignment
- [00:44:00] – Where to find Ramona (LinkedIn: Ramona Crabtree Faulkner / Authentic Life Journey)
- [00:45:00] – Wrap-up & call to subscribe, share, review
